General Overthinking

[Vsdoc]

A lot of behaviour is genetic but can be changed with conscious effort. I get OCD from my mom and impatience from my dad. But I have trained my mind hard to get to some sort of normal levels. It requires constant effort, and not some "do it for 21 days and a new neural path will be developed" kind of thing. At the cost of sounding simplistic and repetitive:

1. Stop thinking what others think of you. In the end it just doesn't matter. (unless you are being paid by them lol)
2. Stop thinking that you need to have the solution to all problems in the world
3. You didn't come into this world by choice. You first need to lookout for yourself. As long as you are not taking something away from someone, you don't owe anybody anything
4. Stop believing that you need to leave some mark in this world. Alexander nahin bano. Yeh sab se bada chutyapa hai.

I have also dealt with financial instability for the past many years. It makes it way worse. If you are financially stable (for the foreseeable future too), there is absolutely no reason to inflict any mental pain upon yourself

Having children, bringing them up well, is already your mark on the world you are leaving that will continue after you.

Some of us will develop something that will be used and help humanity long after we are gone.

Or write or paint or build something, that will outlive us.

 

[Sharma Ji]

Many are not having marriage only

and many married are not having the children only

 

[Sharma Ji]

in this days

 

[Vsdoc]

Many are not having marriage only

and many married are not having the children only

True.

It is a blessing and a privilege.

 

[Sharma Ji]

no one size fits all

I know some, not as lucky.. baccha tapka dia before split

awkward scene

but them seemingly perfect waaley you also see, phull sorted..

but aaj kal more ands more chalta

nmot all bad, tbh .. wouldn't have it any other way.

 

[Vsdoc]

no one size fits all

I know some, not as lucky.. baccha tapka dia before split

awkward scene

but them seemingly perfect waaley you also see, phull sorted..

but aaj kal more ands more chalta

nmot all bad, tbh .. wouldn't have it any other way.

Awkward is how you describe the lot of children when their parents separate?

 

[Sharma Ji]

Awkward is how you describe the lot of children when their parents separate?

Its more prevalent than you think, spl among the urban reasonably decently heeled lot type.

Bhot hai aaj kal, in this kalyug, divorce normal hai, some are not acrimonious at all, some are super contentious, I seen this shiz close quarters, sir.

Kids ka gets complicated, my cousin is now a young single mum, I'm my nephew's mamu.

DIvorcee laundion ka poora group bhi hai

but up and down the socio economic thingy chal raha hai scene, people are divorcing left, right and centre.. as they say LOL

@Paitoo uddin observant banda hai, can probably corroborate.. as can you, Doc, and Nilu

 

[Paitoo]

no one size fits all

I know some, not as lucky.. baccha tapka dia before split

awkward scene

but them seemingly perfect waaley you also see, phull sorted..

but aaj kal more ands more chalta

nmot all bad, tbh .. wouldn't have it any other way.

Sharmaji you have never told about yourself. Married? Separated? Live in? Complicated hai? Kya scene hai?

 

[Paitoo]

Its more prevalent than you think, spl among the urban reasonably decently heeled lot type.

Bhot hai aaj kal, in this kalyug, divorce normal hai, some are not acrimonious at all, some are super contentious, I seen this shiz close quarters, sir.

Kids ka gets complicated, my cousin is now a young single mum, I'm my nephew's mamu.

DIvorcee laundion ka poora group bhi hai

but up and down the socio economic thingy chal raha hai scene, people are divorcing left, right and centre.. as they say LOL

@Paitoo uddin observant banda hai, can probably corroborate.. as can you, Doc, and Nilu

Bhai we are going the Amreeki way, at least in urban India. Soured relationships are rampant. Some women are no longer willing to take even the slightest amount of *&*&*&*&. Fair enough. On the other hand there are women who are trying to make the most money out of separations. In lower middle classes the problem manifests differently. These blokes are social media addicts and try to live like influencers. Sab ko ek GF ya BF chahiye. Jaldi se shaadi kar lete hain. There is no attraction apart from lust. Ek do saal mei affairs shuroo and gets dirty. Murders bhi ho rahay hain. Ghor kalyug

 

[Sharma Ji]

Sharmaji you have never told about yourself. Married? Separated? Live in? Complicated hai? Kya scene hai?

singil

or maybe

singil

mai rou ha hasoo, karu mai kya karu ??

but nobody is batlaoing only !

 

[Sharma Ji]

Abhijeet sahi Sanghi sher nikla, maja aa gaya !

 

[Sharma Ji]

Bhattacharya, second tier bamman

 

[Paitoo]

Bhattacharya, second tier bamman

Bhatt bhi aur acharya bhi, second tier baman kaisay?

 

[Vsdoc]

Its more prevalent than you think, spl among the urban reasonably decently heeled lot type.

Bhot hai aaj kal, in this kalyug, divorce normal hai, some are not acrimonious at all, some are super contentious, I seen this shiz close quarters, sir.

Kids ka gets complicated, my cousin is now a young single mum, I'm my nephew's mamu.

DIvorcee laundion ka poora group bhi hai

but up and down the socio economic thingy chal raha hai scene, people are divorcing left, right and centre.. as they say LOL

@Paitoo uddin observant banda hai, can probably corroborate.. as can you, Doc, and Nilu

Yes bhai. Seen all of that.

Those aunties are hot pickings too for the fat dong guys.

While the husbands do needlepoint at home.

 

[Sharma Ji]

Bhatt bhi aur acharya bhi, second tier baman kaisay?

Tams, Bongs and Marathas ki 3 way fight hai

I'm going with the Tams

Bongs do have quite the reputation too

Marathas are always formidable but are mostly found in their habitat, those other's are invasive species, creepers, takeover kar denge,

 

[Sharma Ji]

bhaiyyas are still in the second division

ranji trophy, duleep trophy type

 

[Paitoo]

Tams, Bongs and Marathas ki 3 way fight hai

I'm going with the Tams

Bongs do have quite the reputation too

Marathas are always formidable but are mostly found in their habitat, those other's are invasive species, creepers, takeover kar denge,

Oh that way, yes. We north Indians bammans are practically shudras for these guys

 

[Sharma Ji]

Oh that way, yes. We north Indians bammans are practically shudras for these guys

you also Mishra type ?

 

[Paitoo]

you also Mishra type ?

No. I have no connection to Oopee. Dad's family was based in Rajasthan for a few generations. Claim origin from Nepali Bammans. Mom's side is half Himachali and half Uttarakhandis. They were more liberal and hence intermarried, but bammans only

 

[Baali Jutt]

Bhai we are going the Amreeki way, at least in urban India. Soured relationships are rampant. Some women are no longer willing to take even the slightest amount of &&&&. Fair enough. On the other hand there are women who are trying to make the most money out of separations. In lower middle classes the problem manifests differently. These blokes are social media addicts and try to live like influencers. Sab ko ek GF ya BF chahiye. Jaldi se shaadi kar lete hain. There is no attraction apart from lust. Ek do saal mei affairs shuroo and gets dirty. Murders bhi ho rahay hain. Ghor kalyug

Do juute maro sar pe aql aa jai gi aur agar mard ko aqal dilwani hai to aurat ke bhai use 2 juute maarien uski aql thikhaane aa jae gi
SM, legal BS ne society kharab kardi hai

 

[Sharma Ji]

Do juute maro sar pe aql aa jai gi aur agar mard ko aqal dilwani hai to aurat ke bhai use 2 juute maarien uski aql thikhaane aa jae gi
SM, legal BS ne society kharab kardi hai

Pakistan me bhi hoga aisa hi among the more upwardly mobile, rich etc types ka I'm quite sure. no ?

 

[Mrloveday]

No. I have no connection to Oopee. Dad's family was based in Rajasthan for a few generations. Claim origin from Nepali Bammans. Mom's side is half Himachali and half Uttarakhandis. They were more liberal and hence intermarried, but bammans only

Pahadis have mongloid blood too.

Do you all look like Nepalis?

 

[Paitoo]

Pahadis have mongloid blood too.

Do you all look like Nepalis?

Some of us have slight mongoloid features. Me too

 

[Lulldapull]

Try tart cherry juice. Buy it online.

Tart cherry juice puts you to sleep like magic.

Amazon sells it online. You can order a case.

Ye dekh bhai:



Hillbilly suar tart cherry juice charrha ker araam say so re hain:

 

[Israel Person]

Depression doesn't exist

 

[Mainerik]

@Baali Jutt

 

[Mainerik]

Do juute maro sar pe aql aa jai gi aur agar mard ko aqal dilwani hai to aurat ke bhai use 2 juute maarien uski aql thikhaane aa jae gi
SM, legal BS ne society kharab kardi hai

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